It is quite normal to desire that a certain left one or message come through during a reading. However in reality we don’t get to choose who we hear from or what they want to say to us. Being open hearted and open minded during your reading is imperative. I recommend that you perhaps take notes which can be reviewed at a later time as well. We often don’t know everything about loved ones who have passed and sometimes information given to me doesn’t make sense to the client until later when the client gains new sight into the loved ones past or personality. Allowing information to be received without preconceived notions or desires will give us both a better and more open connection. Expecting a specific experience it’s a recipe for disaster when coming into a communication session that is beyond our control or understanding.